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A Celebration of Faith, Family and Neurodiversity


The Silent Struggles: Nonverbal Autism and Crying
If there is anything that my short time as a mother has taught me, is that children do a lot of crying. As babies, crying is a primary...
Amanda Perez
2 days ago7 min read
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Empowering Communication: Starting the AAC Journey
Becca is at the beginning of her AAC journey, and we couldn't be more thrilled. I had been asking about the use of such a device since...
Amanda Perez
Mar 87 min read
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Sensory Seeking v. Sensory Avoiding Behaviors
A few months ago, I attended a senior staff retreat at work. We spoke about various topics and the future of our organization. At one...
Amanda Perez
Feb 85 min read
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Beyond Words: Understanding and Initiating Non-Verbal Communication
Happy new year! Becca has spent the beginning of this year quite sick. We spent Christmas Eve at the Children's Hospital to follow up...
Amanda Perez
Jan 114 min read
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Celebrating Neurodiversity
I was recently asked by a fellow Autism mommy (in a somewhat judgmental tone) what I am doing to treat Becca’s Autism, since she isn’t...
Amanda Perez
Dec 14, 20242 min read
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Autism, Parental Burnout, and Imposter Syndrome
Neurodivergent families face a lot of obstacles that arise in part from trying to function as “expected” in societies and systems that...
Amanda Perez
Nov 29, 20248 min read
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Getting Started with Visual Schedules
Parent-teacher conferences were this week, and Becca got amazing feedback from her teachers and her therapists. During the conversation,...
Amanda Perez
Nov 9, 20245 min read
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Children, Popcorn, and The Dangers of Comparison
I have seen this great quote circulating on social media for some years now, and every now and again I think about it: Popcorn is...
Amanda Perez
Oct 27, 20243 min read
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Empowerment Through Accountability
I used to work in an alternative high school in Harlem. The school was designed for students who were overage and under-credited and...
Amanda Perez
Oct 21, 20247 min read
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Navigating Food Aversions
This weekend, Becca's godparents celebrated their 25th wedding anniversary, and they had a beautiful second wedding. Becca got all...
Amanda Perez
Oct 13, 20246 min read
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Finding Peace: Navigating Parental Guilt
Parental guilt is a real thing. A very real thing. As a matter of fact, recent studies show that as much as 94% of moms and 50% of dads...
Amanda Perez
Oct 6, 20245 min read
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The Impact of Words: Talking to Parents of Autistic Kids
As a child growing up, I always heard the phrase "sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me". And while this is a...
Amanda Perez
Sep 29, 20244 min read
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To Stim or Not to Stim...
I have been asked about Becca's means of expression, especially since she does not use words to communicate yet. She uses body language,...
Amanda Perez
Sep 21, 20243 min read
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School - Our Journey So Far
Becca just started kindergarten. I thought I was ready. After all, she was in Pre-K for two years and we were all quite used to the...
Amanda Perez
Sep 15, 20247 min read
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Love and Understanding: Grandparents of Autistic Kids
Sunday, September 8 is Grandparent's Day, and we celebrate grandparents and the many wonderful ways that they contribute to the lives of...
Amanda Perez
Sep 7, 20244 min read
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Sleep Disturbances: An Inside Look
Research shows that over half of children with Autism - and possibly as many as four in five - have one or more chronic sleep problems. ...
Amanda Perez
Sep 1, 20246 min read
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Vacationing on the Spectrum
Vacations can be challenging when you have very young children - these challenges are amplified when your littles are on the spectrum. ...
Amanda Perez
Aug 30, 20243 min read
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Testimonial: Food Aversions
My Becca used to eat more of a variety of food when she was younger but as she’s gotten older she has gotten particular about what she...
Amanda Perez
Aug 30, 20242 min read
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Cotton Balls and Color Bombs
Becca and I started Spring Break with a rest day on Monday since she had a jam packed weekend. Then yesterday we had a sensory day where...
Amanda Perez
Aug 30, 20241 min read
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Autistic Meltdown or Temper Tantrum?
I know that most people mean well, but I have seen and heard many comments in person and online that show that many have grave...
Amanda Perez
Aug 30, 20242 min read
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